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FLOWERS OR NOT, I BLOOM REGARDLESS

 Hi Hi, beautiful people! šŸ˜Š I hope that life has been treating you awesome. On my side, everything has been great, and I really thank the Lord because life has been everything. šŸ™✨

Anyways, let’s get right into it! Hmmm, how was your Valentine’s Day or weekend in general? šŸ’ I know some people got flowers — and we are happy for you!  And some, like me (and maybe you), didn’t get any. And you know what? That’s totally okay!  Getting flowers is lovely, but getting none is also fine (unless you have a non-caring boyfriend who thinks Valentine’s Day doesn’t matter šŸ˜¬). If that bothers you, communicate your expectations! 

So, let me tell you about my Valentine’s Day experience this year!  Hmmmm, first things first—in past years, Valentine’s Day made me cringe. šŸ™ˆ I was always single, so no one to post me or give me flowers. That used to drive me crazy and make me feel lonely. šŸ˜ž It even pushed me into making some of the worst dating decisions of my life. 

But this year... peace. šŸ•Š️ On Friday, I was out in the field all day (busy girl vibes ), and when I got home, I cooked, jumped straight into bed, and started checking everyone’s stories—Snapchat streaks, IG posts, you name it! I saw all the beautiful flowers, chocolates, and sweet messages people shared with their loved ones.  But guess what? I felt zero jealousy. Not even a pang. 

I just enjoyed seeing people happy and went to bed feeling whole. ❤️ For once, I didn’t feel like I was missing out. I realized that I don’t need a relationship to be fulfilled.  Right now, I’m chasing my dreams, capturing what’s meant for me, and building my life. šŸ’« And when the time is right, I trust God will bring the right person my way—someone I love, who loves and respects me in return. šŸ™šŸ’• And when that time comes, I won’t feel like I needed someone to complete me—because I will already be whole. 

And if that guy showed up today...  Sorry, but it’s a no from me! šŸš« I’m simply not ready. I’m not in a place to make space for someone else in my life because, right now, it’s me season. ✨ I’m all about loving myself and building myself up. Maybe in 5 years? šŸ¤·šŸ½‍♀️ But for now, it’s just me and my dreams.  And honestly... I can buy my own flowers (cue Miley Cyrus šŸŽ¶) but didn’t because... I simply didn’t feel like it! 

Now, some quick updates for you! šŸ“ø✨

  • First picture: Yep, that’s me! Took it just seconds ago. šŸ˜ŽšŸ“ø Felt cute, might leave it here forever. šŸ’šŸ½‍♀️šŸ’•




  • Second picture: The shoes I’m about to buy! šŸ‘Ÿ✨ Manifesting them into my life because your girl isn’t broke—just financially strategic. šŸ˜‚šŸ’ø (And yes, I’m buying them this weekend!) šŸ›’


To wrap it up... šŸ’Œ✨ Babes, thank you so much for the endless support and love. You’re the reason I write every chance I get, and I love you so much for it! šŸ„°šŸ’– Until next time... Goodbye, babes! šŸ’‹✨

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