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LIFE LATELY: CHAOS, FAITH & FAKE FRIENDS

 Hi hi, guys!

How are you all doing? I hope life has been treating you well. As for me, it's been a whirlwind—tiring and chaotic, but in a good way. Last week, I was in the field non-stop, even over the weekend. No time to rest, and now here I am, struggling to keep my eyes open on a Monday. Hmm... I wonder if Friday will ever come. But hey, whatever happens, God has been keeping me safe, and I trust He will continue to do so.

Finding God in the Chaos

Speaking of God, let me tell you something—He is real. He truly is. And if you allow Him into your life, He will show Himself to you in ways you never imagined. But I know how hard it can be to hear His voice when life is moving at full speed.

For example, last week, I barely had a moment to pray properly in the morning. Every day, I woke up in a rush, got dressed, ran to catch a moto to the bus station, and headed straight to the field. It felt like I had zero seconds to spare. And isn’t that the reality for so many of us? Our lives have become so fast-paced that we barely slow down to connect with God.

But here’s the thing: We need to change that. You can’t hear God’s voice when your mind is always racing. Take a moment to breathe, to check in with yourself, and to make space for Him. I know you can do it.

Let’s Talk About Selfish People

Now, on to something else that’s been on my mind lately—selfish people. You know the ones I’m talking about. Those people who only call when they need to vent, to share their happiness, or to update you on their lives, but never once stop to ask, "Hey, how are you?"

Don’t get me wrong—I love when my friends are open with me. I want to hear about their wins and struggles. But friendship is supposed to be a two-way street. There are some people who act like they own you, who expect you to always be there for them, yet they never return the favor. And honestly? That’s not how life works.

I am where I want to be. Where God wants me to be. So no, I won’t squeeze myself into someone else’s plans just because they expect me to. I am a friend, not a backup plan.

If someone only calls you when they need to talk about themselves, but disappears when you need them, that’s not friendship—that’s emotional selfishness. And you deserve better than that.

Little Joys in My Life

Enough about fake people! Let’s talk about the small things that made me happy recently:

📸 First picture: A sweet Valentine’s Day treat from my lovely friend. Thank you, my lovey-dovey! You’re such a great person in my life.





☕ Second picture: My empty coffee mug. Yep, I finished my coffee, and it was a solid 10/10!





🎙️ Third picture: My favorite girl, Jules, the amazing podcaster. I adore her so much—she’s my role model, and I aspire to be like her one day.


Wrapping Up

That’s all for today, my loves! Thank you for always reading my blogs, for supporting me, and for being part of my little world. You mean the world to me.

Have an amazing week ahead. I love you! 💖

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