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VALENTINE'S VIBES: LOVE, GIFTS, AND MEMORIES

 

Hi hi beautiful people, I hope you are doing fine! For me, I am doing fantastic—life has been treating me amazingly, and I love how I have been feeling lately. 😍

Anyways, Valentine’s Day is coming! Where is your boyfriend/girlfriend? Are you among those getting flowers or giving flowers? Or are you like me—at home, in the office, or out in the field doing your work, then going home and sleeping as if it's just another normal day? 😆

Sweetheart, if you’re single like me, don’t worry! And if you're getting or giving flowers, I am so proud of you. 💐💕

My First Crush 💖

I just finished writing a poem for my first crush! Hahaha, his name was Regis. He was such a handsome young man. I remember I was 12 at the time, and trust me, he tried to date me, but I was like, "No, my friends would laugh at me." 🙈 But guess what? I regretted that for three whole years! My crush turned into love, but by then, he had moved on to someone else.

Here’s the poem—though I don’t even have a title for it yet:

Yeah I was young,
Yet young enough to fear their critiques,
And too naive to trust the antiques,
So I chose to let you go.

I remember your lovely eyes,
As clear as crystal,
Watering from my foolish cries,
That I won’t date someone from Bristol,
Yet deep down, you were all I longed for.

You were the dream of my nights,
The only reason my face was bright,
Yet I chose to ignore it all,
To let go of what was close,
And I lost you in the pause.

And here I am, as single as a lone sock,
While you’re with her every o’clock.
You and her became my worst regret,
And my life feels like a lost bet.

 

Let’s Talk About Valentine’s Day 💘

First things first—is Valentine’s Day only for girlfriends? Or do guys get gifts too? I honestly don’t know, but if I were dating someone, I would definitely give them a gift. Because let’s be real—Valentine’s Day is a day for love, and girls aren’t the only ones in relationships. Guys deserve gifts too! 🎁💙

Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas 🎀

For Girls:

  1. Flowers 🌹 (But first, check if she actually likes them!)
  2. Chocolates 🍫 (Again, make sure she loves them.)
  3. Something meaningful 💝—Like a phone if she needs one, a phone case if hers is worn out, or anything she truly wants.

For Guys:

  1. Caps, T-shirts, hoodies, or shirts 👕 (Depends on the type of guy you’re dating.)
  2. Something he needs 🏆—If you know he wants something and you can afford it, why not surprise him?

Also, remember that not everyone loves gifts! Some people prefer words of affirmation. If your partner loves sweet words, don’t underestimate the power of telling them how much you love and appreciate them. 💬💕

A Little Reminder 💡

Gift your partner based on what they like—not what society dictates. And if you don’t have someone this Valentine’s, enjoy the day alone! Don’t compare yourself to others. Remember, the sun and the moon shine at different times. 🌞🌙 Having a boyfriend/girlfriend is great, but being single isn’t bad either! If you’re single, maybe it’s just because God wants your attention right now. And trust me, in His perfect timing, you’ll get your own boo. 💖✨

My Valentine's Week in Pictures 📸

I took pictures of some beautiful flowers I saw on the internet (because it’s Valentine’s week, you know! 😆)




. I also captured the coffee I drank this morning



and a screenshot of Centre Cee’s song, which I am obsessed with right now. His latest album is amazing, and I’m so proud of him! 🎶🎧



Thank You ❤️

Thank you so much, guys, for the love and support. I can’t wait to see what the future holds, and I can’t wait to enjoy it with you. More importantly—I love you all! 😘 Wishing you all the best ahead.

Love you, byeeee! 💕

 

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