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HEY LIFE, I’M BACK!

 Hi hi, beautiful people! 🌞💛

I hope life is treating you like the kings and queens you are 👑—because you truly deserve it! Gosh, I can’t believe how long it’s been since I last wrote or published a blog post 😩. But hey, let’s just say life has been pushing me to the edges and pulling me back again... and now? I think I’m finally back to some form of normality—or at least I believe I am 🤷🏽‍♀️.

I’m not sure if this is going to be a story or just a little life update—but here goes. Lately, everything I tried felt like a failure 💔. I was really down—almost to the point of falling into depression. But as someone who clings to faith and the power of prayer 🙏🏽, I chose to pray instead... and honestly? That saved me. Here I am—not depressed, but stepping out of the darkness. 🌤️

Let me just say this out loud: I missed myself. 💫 And just when I needed it most, a friend recommended a book called "A Thousand Boy Kisses." 📖💋 And oh my goodness—it’s the real deal! I read it, I cried, I reflected. One big lesson I took away was this: Life is now—because tomorrow is never promised. So live your best, boldest life now. 💃🏽✨

And to be honest, I’ve always been scared of change. I’m that girl who orders the same dish at the same restaurant for a whole year 😂. But after finishing that book, I realized something deep: life is about exploring the alternatives—stepping into the unknown with courage and curiosity. 🌍🍃

From now on, if I want something, I’ll go for it. I’m going to try new things, laugh louder, cry when I need to, and let go of what no longer serves me. Because at the end of the day, things fade—but the memories we create last forever. 

Oh, and speaking of memories—scroll down to see some cute snaps I took during a walk home from the office 🌿🚶🏽‍♀️. I captured lots of beautiful plants, and the peace I felt in that moment was something special.





Oh! One more thing—I finally finished the cardigan I was crocheting! 🧶✨ Your girl is a proud babe right now, okay? 😍

Thank you for always being here, for reading, and for simply existing. 💌
And remember, I love you—and I live you. (Yes, both!) ❤️

Until next time,
With all the cozy love,
Your girl HER

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  1. ArseneJune 9, 2025 at 2:13 PM

    You write from the softest kind of strength. You carry change with grace. Imana Iguhe Umugisha

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